A couple years ago, I got rid of the majority of the kid’s toys and we’ve never regretted it. Since then, in order to limit the chaos that toys tend to create, I’ve been able to limit our collection to toys that really promote creative thinking.
The less an object does, the more versatile it is for the creative mind.
Think about it:
- When a toy says phrases, that limits the amount of sounds a child will use when playing with it. If the toy does not say anything, then all of a sudden the options are as unlimited as a child’s imagination.
- When you have plastic food in the toy kitchen, the child is limited to only serve from those options, if there is no plastic food, then the child will make whatever food comes to mind- they only have to imagine it.
- If they have a character doll, they will tend to play that it is that character. If they have a general doll, that doll can be anything the child imagines.
This list isn’t exhaustive, there are many other toys that can benefit children, but to actually get those benefits, you have to limit the amount of items that are in your home.
When there is a smaller amount of items, it is easier to choose what to play with, there is more room to play, it is easier to clean up afterwards and it isn’t overwhelming to the senses.
As you evaluate the toys in your own home, remember to keep a manageable amount. Aside from the building sets, 4-6 items is all that is needed and is much more manageable for a child.
Just think- when you go to a restaurant and you have the entire menu- have you noticed that they break it down into categories, soups, sandwiches, pastas- and if you look closer, they limit what is in each category to 5-10 items- because than it’s easier for us to decide what we want to eat. If we’re that way as adults, then it makes sense that our children are the same. ~Practical Tips To Organizing Children’s Rooms
Children’s Toys That Promote Creative Thinking:
Dress Up Clothes. I recommend getting general dress up clothes, rather than specific character; a princess dress over an Elsa dress, or black robe (which may be a Jedi, a ninja, a pirate or a vampire) over a specific superhero.
Play Silks. Play silks are perfect for creative play- they’ve been superhero capes, tents, water and land. They’ve been beautiful skirts, tree trunks and wings. The options are limitless.
Building Toys. The toys that have gotten the most use in our home has been, Lego, Lego Duplo, Bionicles and Kapla blocks. These go into our “rotation toys” that we rotate about once a month.
Play Doh and Animals. My kids love Play Doh, but they love it even more with a few wild animals in it. They make mountains to climb, caves to live in, fences, houses, all sorts of props for their animal friends. Keep a limit to it- make homemade playdough so it’s all one color, or keep to the smaller 4-pack of commercial Play Doh. Having fewer choices makes it easier to decide. Avoid the mega sets of animals and pick up a few nice quality Breyer animals from your local farm and ranch store. (Don’t worry- they have every animal imaginable- not just farm animals!)
Dolls. Depending on what stage your child is at, they may prefer baby dolls or dollhouse figures. American Girl and Barbies are more challenging- simply because of the extreme amount of accessories that is promoted. I have found there is more imaginative play with a baby doll and plain wooden peg dolls. We also have castle set with a few princesses and knights. The castle set is in our toy rotation, so it’s out a couple months out of the year.
Kitchen Items. If you have kitchen items, you invite creative play by limiting them. Have a pot and plates, but very little, if any, pretend food. The less you have, the more they pretend. We acquired a nice wooden kitchen, but, to be honest, the kids would pretend with a simple shelf more often, so nothing fancy is needed.