When we’re in the midst of overwhelm, it’s hard to separate anything and figure out what to focus on. But working through this simple list can give some balance and order to the home when we need it most.
1. Do the dishes
I know this seems so basic, but trust me in this: If the dishes are done, life seems a little more manageable. It’s the small things that tend to pile up and overwhelm. Taking 10-15 minutes out of your day to wash dishes means it’s one less “to-do” running through your mind. It’s done. You can move on to something else.
Don’t hold yourself to a perfectionist goal here. Just simply wash one load of dishes. You don’t have to scrub the counters and wash the pots of the stove. Wash up a sink-full, or dishwasher full and call it good. You don’t even have to dry them: just get them washed.
2. Toss the trash
Grab yourself a garbage bag and race through each room grabbing any and every piece of trash you see: pop cans, broken toys, junk mail, old magazines, etc.
This should be a quick task, just picking up surface clutter. Don’t open cupboards and drawers, just grab the trash that is immediately visible: if you were a realtor walking into the house, what trash items would you notice? Toss those things.
3. Pack up the toys
If you have children in the house, you probably have toys all over too. Most of us do! Even though my kids have a very minimal amount of toys, at the end of the day, they have to be collected from all over the house and put away. But I remember back when the kids had a typical amount of toys, and by the end of the day, the mess in the house was 83% worse than it could have been, simply because there was an immense amount of toys strewn from one door to the other.
Tell the kids you’re going to do an experiment. Have them keep a few toys they enjoy and play with regularly, then box the rest up. It’s ok if you don’t have anyplace to put it- even a taped up box in the corner of the room feels better than a chaotic toy invasion. Keep them boxed up for a while: 1-3 months. See if anyone misses anything.
4. Clear one surface
This might be a counter in the kitchen, your desk or a coffee table in the living room. Like the dishes, it doesn’t have to be done perfectly either. If you don’t have time to sort, put things in a box or a bag. The goal is to give your eyes a place to rest that makes you feel good.
Sometime the bag might sit in a corner for a couple weeks before you get to sorting it. That is ok. It will get done, you can’t focus on that right now. Right now, it’s just important for you not to feel scattered and stressed.
5. Do a brain dump
You have a lot that needs to get done? Write it down. If you have things that need to happen over the next couple days (packing before a trip, organizing the bake sale, etc), then make a list of each day and write out the things that need to be done on the right days:
- Wash clothes
- Find swimsuits
- Buy sunscreen
- Pack clothes
- Pack all swim/water gear
- Put everything in the car
- Grab snacks from the fridge
- Take jackets
- Fuel up
You can also write down every single thought and “should do” you can think of. Having everything on paper gets it out of your mind. Because it’s all written down, there is no need to try and remember everything and your mind can take a breath.
What helps you calm down when you feel overwhelmed and out of control? Please share in the comments below.
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